Depending on who's lurking, this post might ruffle some feathers but I don't give a fuck! If you've been following, I write a lot. Most of what I write is raw, real shit that I've been through. One of the things I wrote the most about was Papa my ex, and how the world… Continue reading Outsiders: They’re not always haters
I was just leaving therapy, which ultimately I leave K's office very vulnerable. Putting my guard and defense back up when I leave out of her office isn't apart of my healing, in fact, being vulnerable is something I need to embrace. So with that, to give you an idea of my mindset, I came… Continue reading So, I got pulled over…
My ex-husband and I were together 6.5 years, got married on that anniversary and separated that same year. In the time we were together, we had two children, created a lifestyle and things weren't perfect but I was content. I didn't have to worry about a lot of things except his infidelities, which eventually had broken… Continue reading Parenting After Divorce
I'm super sad that I have to take a break from you guys. I just started a new position at work that I am in really extensive training for and I don't have computer access. They're also really strict about cell phone use so it's limited. I'm still writing. I have a few juicy stories… Continue reading Taking a break
It's summertime! And a lot of ladies I know are single and trying to figure out what to do for the summer and I'm telling you, whatever you wanna do, girl it's okay! The summer after I separated with my husband 2015, was probably one of the best summers I ever had. My kids were… Continue reading Girl, it’s okay!
I swear man, I never understood why women especially women of color are so harsh on each other? We - although it doesn't apply to all - we do not stand with those not in our circle but we as a whole - women of color - are the most attacked, degraded and disrespected all… Continue reading Women…
And I'm not talking about the ointment y'all. I'm talking about anxiety and depression. It's so hard and I'm currently frustrated and trying to get it out so I can feel better. I hate not having as much control over my mental. My mood changes so much, sometimes in a day. But mostly whatever emotion… Continue reading Living w/ a & d