Random Thoughts of Ashleigh Noelle

Outsiders: They’re not always haters

  Depending on who's lurking, this post might ruffle some feathers but I don't give a fuck! If you've been following, I write a lot. Most of what I write is raw, real shit that I've been through. One of the things I wrote the most about was Papa my ex, and how the world… Continue reading Outsiders: They’re not always haters

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So, I got pulled over…

I was just leaving therapy, which ultimately I leave K's office very vulnerable. Putting my guard and defense back up when I leave out of her office isn't apart of  my healing, in fact, being vulnerable is something I need to embrace. So with that, to give you an idea of my mindset, I came… Continue reading So, I got pulled over…

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Parenting After Divorce

My ex-husband and I were together 6.5 years, got married on┬áthat anniversary and separated that same year. In the time we were together, we had two children, created a lifestyle and things weren't perfect but I was content. I didn't have to worry about a lot of things except his infidelities, which eventually had broken… Continue reading Parenting After Divorce

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Taking a break

I'm super sad that I have to take a break from you guys. I just started a new position at work that I am in really extensive training for and I don't have computer access. They're also really strict about cell phone use so it's limited. I'm still writing. I have a few juicy stories… Continue reading Taking a break

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Girl, it’s okay!

It's summertime! And a lot of ladies I know are single and trying to figure out what to do for the summer and I'm telling you, whatever you wanna do, girl it's okay! The summer after I separated with my husband 2015, was probably one of the best summers I ever had. My kids were… Continue reading Girl, it’s okay!

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Women…

I swear man, I never understood why women especially women of color are so harsh on each other? We - although it doesn't apply to all - we do not stand with those not in our circle but we as a whole - women of color - are the most attacked, degraded and disrespected all… Continue reading Women…

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Living w/ a & d

And I'm not talking about the ointment y'all. I'm talking about anxiety and depression. It's so hard and I'm currently frustrated and trying to get it out so I can feel better. I hate not having as much control over my mental. My mood changes so much, sometimes in a day. But mostly whatever emotion… Continue reading Living w/ a & d